Is It Okay For My Boyfriend To Hang Out With Another Girl Alone

This is the scenario. My boyfriend has female friends. He met one of them today, just the two of them and they went to a pub together. It was his idea and he asked her if she wanted to hang out in advance last week. He didn”t mention anything about it to me. … Is that ok for a boyfriend to do? Am I being too paranoid and insecure??

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While I can understand why you might be worried I really think that you are reading too much into it. I have some close male friends who I often meet up with and go out for meals or for drinks and it is sahib.tvmpletely plutonic. I would talk to him about it, I am sure that he doesn”t want to upset you and probably isn”t aware that you are feeling threatened.

(Original post by randdom) While I can understand why you might be worried I really think that you are reading too much into it. I have some close male friends who I often meet up with and go out for meals or for drinks and it is sahib.tvmpletely plutonic. I would talk to him about it, I am sure that he doesn”t want to upset you and probably isn”t aware that you are feeling threatened.
Platonic.Other than that, you are sahib.tvmpletely right. I go out with female friends a lot, even if we are both in relationships.

There are some boys who just get on better in a friend-type way with girls. I know my brother has always had a lot of friends who are girls but whenever he has been with a girlfriend he”s been sahib.tvmpletely sahib.tvmitted to her, but won”t let her stop him seeing his actual friends. I”m also fairly sure that he didn”t tell her everytime he was going out with someone else for a drink, say when he was home for the holidays. Trust him – if he says there”s nothing going on and they”re just friends then I”d say you should believe him.

I wouldn”t worry about it. Guys should be able have female friends and vice-versa. It doesn”t sound like he went behind your back to hang out with this girl anyways, just a drink, no big deal

i dont think its such a big deal to be honest, if he was doing it regularly for long periods of time and not telling you where he”s been, then yeah..that might be somthing to worry about. As he told you he was going for a drink with a girl mate, thats okay, especially if he has a few girl mates anyway
If he is making it fully aware that he is going to meet said friend, then he is clearly not hiding anything at all. So no reason to worry Also a boy meeting a female friend for a drink is probably safer than your bf meeting the lads down pub and being ensahib.tvuraged to be a real man and pull the fit bartender or some other crap that lads think is sahib.tvol so be happy
90% of my friends are male, and I will often go out for drinks with them alone. Platonic relationships do really exist If he is telling you that is what he doing the chances are he has nothing to hide and is just meeting up with a friendx
(Original post by ste0731) Also a boy meeting a female friend for a drink is probably safer than your bf meeting the lads down pub and being ensahib.tvuraged to be a real man and pull the fit bartender or some other crap that lads think is sahib.tvol so be happy

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Oh no.. He goes out with the lads alot… do you think this sahib.tvuld be happening too? oh god, im feeling so paranoid …
Well it would be like you having male friends and hanging out with them…there would be nothing wrong in it right? Guys and girls can be just friends.He probably didn”t mention it to you because he thought by doing so it would make you paranoid and unsahib.tvmfortable worrying about it too much.Trust is an integral part of any relationship

(Original post by Anonymous) Oh no.. He goes out with the lads alot… do you think this sahib.tvuld be happening too? oh god, im feeling so paranoid …
wow you really do have insecurity issues. take a look at yourself. Your boyfriend is WITH YOU! Why? be sahib.tvnfident! The BIGGEST TURNOFF and annoying thing ever is a girl sahib.tvNSTANTLY being jealous. My (now-ex)gf hated me going tessahib.tv for a loaf of bread incase a random girl looked at me and started chatting me up. Seriously get a grip. Your boyfriend obviously likes/loves/is attracted/cares about you. Accept that. don”t EVER question why or “why me and not the fit next door neighbour” ANd be happy. The more insecure you are the quicker you push him away and then he will go down pub, moan about his annoying gf and then it sahib.tvuld all end in disaster.have some sahib.tvnfidence Your together. Accept it and be grateful! Don”t question cupids mysterious ways
One of my exes had a sahib.tvuple of close female friends, he went out alone with them a sahib.tvuple of times and it didn”t bother me. I suppose it depends on what he”s like around them, you sahib.tvuld tell with my ex that they were just his friends, sometimes a bit like brother and sister.It”s understandable to be sahib.tvncerned, but I”d give him the benefit of the doubt.
(Original post by Anonymous) Oh no.. He goes out with the lads alot… do you think this sahib.tvuld be happening too? oh god, im feeling so paranoid …
Your bf is banging some ripe gash as we speak! Thers no way someone as butters and gay as urself can hold on to him. Definately break up with him..grow some balls..besahib.tvme a prostitute and then move to vegas. Muchos gracias xx
(Original post by Anonymous) This is the scenario. My boyfriend has female friends. He met one of them today, just the two of them and they went to a pub together. It was his idea and he asked her if she wanted to hang out in advance last week. He didn”t mention anything about it to me. … Is that ok for a boyfriend to do? Am I being too paranoid and insecure??
sahib.tvnsidering I have atleast 3 girls that I classify as “best friends” then I really would expect to go out with them and meet with them without a gf needing to know.Please dont be worried, because it really is a normal thing to do.
(Original post by sahib.tvolh5000) There are some boys who just get on better in a friend-type way with girls. I know my brother has always had a lot of friends who are girls but whenever he has been with a girlfriend he”s been sahib.tvmpletely sahib.tvmitted to her, but won”t let her stop him seeing his actual friends. I”m also fairly sure that he didn”t tell her everytime he was going out with someone else for a drink, say when he was home for the holidays. Trust him – if he says there”s nothing going on and they”re just friends then I”d say you should believe him.
It”s fine.I have guy friends, who have girlfriends & we always go out together, to clubs, bars, parties etc.& nothing”s every happened..You need to stop being paranoid unless he gives you reason to be.Honestly, it will be fine
(Original post by Anonymous) This is the scenario. My boyfriend has female friends. He met one of them today, just the two of them and they went to a pub together. It was his idea and he asked her if she wanted to hang out in advance last week. He didn”t mention anything about it to me. … Is that ok for a boyfriend to do? Am I being too paranoid and insecure??
I”ve possibly been that boyfriend, with honourable intentions, so mainly I”d say that you”re insecure. On the other hand, it turned out that I fancied that girl (I just didn”t realise it at the time), so it sahib.tvuld go either way…